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The Love Problem: Who is Mr. Right?

March 29, 2005

There are times when the one thing you want is the one thing you never gets. Why do we have to SUFFER? Why do we have to CRY when someone bids us goodbye? Why do we beginning have an END? WHY DO WE HAVE TO MEET ONLY TO SAY GOODBYE IN THE END???

In a relationship one of the hardest things to do is SAYING GOODBYE and LETTING GO. It is hard to breaking crystal, because you’ll never know when you will be able to PICK UP the pieces again. More often than not they go feel not the pain of parting. It is they who stays behind that suffer because they are left with memories of a love that wasn’t meant to be.

SOMETIMES we make WRONG DECISION to choose WHO is MR. RIGHT?. Because sometimes OUR FEELINGS is WRONG, RIGHT?. "Kung SINO pa yung TUNAY nagmamahal at nagmamalasakit sayo yun pa ang nababaliwala". Kapag nasaktan kana, niloko, pinaglaruan at ginamit saka mo mare - realized yung taong binaliwala at pinagtabuyan mo.

You dumped like a GARBAGE. We must admit that almost SUITOR’S are GREAT PRETENDER, RIGHT? THINK? They pretend to be someone, to be perfect for you and to be the best in your eyes. Do you experience that? They pretend just to empress you then after HE gets your SWEET "YES" or "OO" wala lalabas na ang TUNAY na KULAY. TAMA? Ang pagsisisi laging nasa HULI. If you really LOVE someone don’t pretend, BE TRUE TO YOUR SELF. And if you are really looking for a MR. RIGHT, you must THINK for how many times before you decide and make final decision. DON’T GO for LOOKS, it can DECEIVE and don’t GO for WEALTH even that FADES AWAY. Go for someone who makes you COMPLETE. Sometimes we are "MANHID" kung sino pa yung alam natin nagmamalasakit at magmamahal sa atin ng tapat at wagas yun pa ang ating binabaliwala, mas pipiliin natin yung di pala karapat – dapat mahalin.

And one thing I want to clear and remind you. COURTSHIP, don’t depend on how long (TAGAL) or short (BILIIS) HE COURTED YOU. THINK and FEEL? Who is really TRUE TO HIS SELF and TRUE to his INTENTION to love you truly? BE WISE TO CHOOSE.

Remember this:

IS YOUR LOSS NOT THE GUY. At the beginning and at the end of a relationship we are embarrassed to find ourselves alone. Unfair as it may seem but that’s the way love goes. That’s the drama, the bitter sweet and risk of falling in love. After all nothing is constant but change. Everything will eventually come to its end without us knowing when, without us knowing how, without us knowing why. And we must forget not because we want to but because we want to because we have too. Kapag WALA na yung taong MAGMAMAHAL sayo ng TAPAT, TUNAY at WAGAS saka mo hahanapin HULI NA kasi nagpaka – "TANGA KA".

Remember this:

TRUE PERSON and TRUE LOVE is very very very very very very very veryn …DIFFICULT TO FIND and HAVE in our LIFE. If you want TO BE A GREAT FOOL for the REST of your LIFE and LOVE LIFE, SO BE IT. ENJOY! Is your GREAT LOSS, gusto mo ba yung AFTER KA MAGAMIT you dumped like a GARBAGE TOO like what you’ve done to the RIGHT PERSON who COURTED YOU and TRUE TO YOU. Sometimes we have to part because of circumstances beyond our control. We have to suffer if it would mean happiness for others. We have to CRY temporarily and let go of the pains. Every beginning has its end like every dawn has dusk. It something we can’t control, it’s just something we have to live up. There are questions left unanswered, words left unsaid, letters left unread, poems left undone, songs left unsung, love left unexpressed and promise left unfulfilled. It seems that everywhere you go, everything you do, every song you hear, every turn of your head, every move of your body, every beat of your heart, every blink of your eye and every breath you take always reminds you of a TRUE PERSON and TRUE LOVE, reminds you that why I am such a great fool "TANGA". Why I make a wrong decision to choose who is MR. RIGHT.

It’s OVER… now I am GONE… but life has to go on. GOODBYE doesn’t always mean FOREVER. There will always be a place and time where questions will be answered, words will be spoken, letters will be read, poems will be recited at night, songs will be sung in harmony and love will be expressed in solitude and promises will be fulfilled.

SOMEDAY… SOMEWHERE… SOMEHOW… I am TRUE TO MY SELF. I don’t need to PRETEND to EMPRESS YOU. WHY SHOULD I? Because when I do that I need to keep that standard for the REST OF MY LIFE. I don’t need to invent a whole new just to get your attention to notice me. I want the GIRL LIKE and ACEPT ME, LOVE ME who really I am. I don’t want to LIE for the REST OF MY LIFE.

So I’m very FINE just the way I AM and I’m fine being TRUE TO MY SELF. Now, YOU dumped like a GARBAGE TOO. MASAKIT BA? Now, Do you experienced to be HURT. MASAKIT BA? Now, YOU FOOLED by you partner, your lover. MASAKIT BA? Di ka sana ginawang PANG PORMA sa mga tao, sa mga friends nya at kung kanikanino. MASAKIT DI BA? Only you can decide what you want. If you’re happy GUY’S fooling you. If you’re happy with the life you’re leading, so be it. ENJOY! YOU WOULDN’T WANT TO BE A "FOOL" for your WHOLE LIFE, WOULD YOU??????????!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

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